Hope this is what you're looking for. I also have a good recipe for homemade Kahlua. Post a request if you are interested.

1 3/4 c Irish whiskey ( or your favorite brandy or rum)
14 oz Sweetened condensed milk
1 c whipping or light cream
4 eggs (I'm not sure if you can use egg substitute)
2T Chocolate syrup
2 tsp instant coffee
1 tsp vanilla
1/2 tsp almond extract

Combine all ingredients in a blender, blend until smooth. Store tightly covered in refrigerator up to one month. Stir before serving.