Here are a couple I like to use:

Pina Colada Fruit Dip

8 oz can crushed pineapple in its own juice, undrained
1 small pkg instant coconut pudding mix
3/4 cup milk
1/2 cup sour cream

Mix well, cover, chill overnight.

Cheesecake Fruit Dip

3 oz cream cheese
2 Tbsp sugar
2 Tbsp milk (or Amaretto!)
2 cups thawed Cool Whip
1 tsp vanilla

Beat the cream cheese and sugar till fluffy. Add milk or Amaretto, beat till well blended. Stir in vanilla and Cool Whip. Refrigerate. Freezes well.