Boy do I know about those couple of little hairs showing up in odd places!About 2 or 3 black ones show up every now & then.How distressing they can be!I am also going thru menopause.Have you tried Red Clover Complex & Black Cohosh Root?They are a natural plant estogren.You can get them at Walmart,$3.79 for the Black Cohosh & $4 something for the Red Clover here in Mo.I have been taking them for about 6 months now & they have really made me feel alot better!No hotflashes,the hairs are not growing in like they were & i'm not crying when I should be laughing & vica-versa!Good luck if you try them!It takes awhile for them to start working I think after the third week for me I could feel a difference!