i must admit that i have bbecome a scary cat when i saw the post "Feel free to ignore" & "Dear Eggy" and they were all followed by "10" (posts so i assmued that they were from teh same topic...) then i thought, oh, what have i done this time??? I was reluctant to open up these two but only to find such kind words from both of you! :) i was actually laughing at myself!

yeah, i did receieved a coupl of unkind e-mail (and i have shared my problems with a coupel of friends here on tkl, in private, coz i didn't think to bother Betsy about this.) i was troubled by those e-mail at first but i grew to ignore them like AJ said. Then i eventually deleted some of those contacts... it was a huge step for me as i have known some of them for years. but, hey, life goes on... (i didn't think it's right for me to brig up their names or e-mail contant here coz that's too private and too rude.)

anyway, it's all in the past now & i am OK :>

THANK YOU!