How very right you are Page.

I too believe that lovely things should be used, admired and loved. My daughter-in-law (I only have one) has a beautiful crystal bowl, which is brought out on special occasions. This bowl is always admired by someone, and in return, gives Sharon, and my son David, a whole lot of pleasure.
I shall keep you, your brother and the rest of your family in my prayers. Some folks 'hurt' for longer than others. All I can say is that I know you will there for him, whenever he needs someone. Someone to be there, to pick up the pieces, and help him back on his way again. If it is any consollation to you Page, I ahve a few friends that are gay, and from my observation, they all are lovely people, but very sensitive and easily hurt. One of my friends has been 'searching' for years now, and only lately has he found what he was looking for. It took going to New Zealand to find it though. At last he is happy, and this, I wish for you, and your brother, Page. Love from Angel O:-)